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The Burden of Deserve: How Conditional Worth Shapes Our Lives




Deserve is a heavy word. Why? Because some of us heard it is very conditional. 


If you're like me, you grew up with a parent who said that 

unless you work very, very hard, 

unless you become a really good human being who thinks of others more than yourself, 

unless you dedicate your life to wordly matters, 

unless you live your life thinking of your every move being fair and 

unless you are productive all the time—you might not deserve everything good in life. 


Especially not money, because money can spoil all these